DREAMS ARE AN OPENING DOOR
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See results without votingDreams can be more than real
When I was just a kid, my dreams were more than real. They were predictions – valid ones. It was almost a comfort zone to have “forewarnings”, as I came to think of them as. The last few I remember however, offered no comfort at all, and changed my life.
Our home was one of the first four in a newly developing neighborhood. Behind our house was a huge apple orchard. Between the construction and the orchard, there was no end to the mischief we could find to get into. Then, I dreamt that a neighboring boy was going to break an arm while playing. It seemed a safe enough assumption since he was quite reckless. None-the-less, I passed the warning onto him with a full description.
He rallied his friends together to make me the laughing stock of the century. When he did break his arm, exactly as I had described, he and his parents blamed me – as if I had caused the incident. Rumors spread quickly - I became some sort of 20th century witch in the flesh. Even my mother turned against me because of those rumors, ostracizing me not only from neighborhood children, but also, from my own family members.
We try to fit in and bury our gifts…
courtesy of Donna Moratelli
When a new dream showed he was going to break his leg, I said nothing – just witnessed in silence. A repeating nightmare began of my entire family abandoning me. I could describe it to this day in detail. Every night for 3 years, that same nightmare would frighten me and I would wake up terrified and alone. The vivid characters in that dream all had meaning – each one made sense to me, even then.
Dreams became synonymous with "awful". I did not want to see any more of those real predictions or the frightening forms they took. The solution I came up with was to train myself to be such a light sleeper; I would no longer reach that dream state. My parents did not ever see me asleep again. As soon as they would touch the door handle to my room, I would be wide awake!
Over the years, I continued to stifle that gift as if it were a curse rather than a blessing. I would bear the burdens of real life misery instead of paying attention to or heeding the warnings that were mine to see freely without consequences.
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As a teenager, I read “The Bridge Across Forever” and hoped I’d find someone to love so deeply, we’d be willing to cross that bridge, as they did in both their waking hours and sleep, yet I still blocked that avenue by myself.
In my 20s I attended and volunteered in seminars that practiced going to the deepest levels of consciousness with many techniques. We would tap into universal mind and wisdom, healing through thoughts.
Purposeful soul travel started as I discovered we can easily transcend time and space.
My 30s brought metaphysics to become aware of subconscious memories and creations for greater alignment and manifesting. Centerpointe Research introduced methods to instantly reach the “theta” meditative state.
By the time I reached my 40s, I was a Reiki Master and One Brain Facilitator (just to mention a couple).
Over the years, and decades, learning about anything and everything out of the ordinary was awesome and helped me see 'miracles' unfold before me, but still refused to pay attention to my dreams.
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Finally, I was guided to Eckankar and the fellowship of like-minded, like hearted, like experienced souls. To advance beyond the initial awareness and protection it offered, stage “2” required utilizing our gift of dream guidance. I dipped my toe in by asking specific questions for specific guidance before going to sleep. The swiftness of the answers astounded me. The warmth of that wisdom ought to have made me rejoice and shout to share it from the rooftops! Instead, I ran from it.
Consciously, I now know that this gift does not make me the laughing stock of the century and it is not as unique as suspected - we are all capable of it if we want.
Still, after so many decades of running and avoiding it, I became a pro. I even created a living situation with someone who was as far from walking that path as could be found, while still living a kind life. He is the real pro, having mastered even the suppression of emotions. We remained housemates for years. I pretended the reason I left the TV on all night was to drown out his loud snoring in the adjacent room.
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Then I met TR, my housemate’s friend from long ago. You have had those immediate connections too I am sure. The intense ones where you feel as though you have known each other forever. Anytime people like that arrive in our lives, within a very short period of time, discussions reach such deep soul levels it’s as though you’re catching up on lifetimes.
We can't help but notice the electrifying energy, no matter what is happening in our lives at the time. Perhaps you too have discovered or experienced those connections as re-uniting with soul-mates from past lives? Michael is the expert in explaining those in “Finding Your Soul Mate” along with Elizabeth Claire Prophet in “Soul Mates and Twin Flames” and apparently now in “Soulmates” by Jess Stearn. That however is a subject for a whole other hub.
I needed to meet TR to yank me out of the fear of travelling in my dreams. As he spoke of his own enlightening dreams, times he would write all he saw, felt and heard in his sleep, my daydream of finding a man I can walk the “Bridge Across Forever” with is re-awakened. Although it feels as though I could cross that bridge with him, that may not be why we met.
What I do know for sure is that our meeting saved me from a fate worse than death: believing that my haven of safety and not growing was a “comfortable” way to live. Just as when we look at a wooden table and believe it to be “stable”. It is not stable at all. It is in a state of decay from the moment the tree was cut from its life giving roots.
Stability is an illusion - we're either growing or decaying...
No point disbelieving...
Did this personal account increase your interest and possible further research?
See results without votingI used to boldly face the fears I was aware of. There is no way they could be anywhere near as debilitating as our vivid imagination and creativity paint them out to be.
Perhaps now that I am in my 50s, I am wise enough not to be concerned with who will laugh at me out of ignorance as I openly share to find others who want to know.
Maybe I can even enjoy getting out of ignorance myself because some people are where I was and still afraid to recognize that
“dreams are an opening door – into the heart of what we’re looking for…” – Bill Mann
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Wow, SEM Pro! This hub has so many cool elements -- identifying your gift, denying your gift, finding your soul twin, rediscovering your gift, sharing your gift.
This is all fascinating stuff. I enjoyed reading and learning more about you! MM
What a beautiful way of sharing. I am so aware of your gift, and it is a gift. Your dreams and sleep become better as you allow the gift to express more freely in the light of day with your eyes open.
I suppressed not the gift, but the sharing of it with others. As you said, by sharing, it somehow becomes interpreted you had something to actually do with causing the event to occur.
Similiarly, I have followed the path of reiki and energy facilitator in many forms.
How nice it is to read as you share in a way I still fumble with. I really appreciate this hub!
Tasty hub, I think I need to read it a couple times though. Lots in there.
I used to get dreams like that and occasionally still do. Also sometimes i KNOW something will happen. It is an odd feeling and sometimes I miss it. I am trying to learn how to make this talent more reliable.
I sometimes get Lucid dreams and wonder how this fits with your hub. Glad you came to terms with your talent and learned how to know, dare and keep silent
SEMPro- As always, brilliant hub. I got goosebumps reading about people we meet whom we feel that instant soul connection. Also, we have travelled a similar path to enlightenment. I am going to work on the questions prior to sleep, now that I have been getting a bit more than recent weeks. xD ~ I have a fresh journal, yet I typically use it for poetry, lol! See ya around. Sweet dreams! ;)
SEM Pro, another GREAT hub. It is said that when the student is ready the teacher will show up. I know this is no coincidence, as I have been reading and questioning about dreams of late.
As a child, my grandma encouraged me to share my dream and she helped me to find meaning. As I get older, I've kept my dreams to myself, especially the ones that scare me. Sometimes things happen and I feel a sense of dajuv and then I then I remember that I had dreamt about it.
Over the last 10 years or so I find that I do not remember most of my dreams anymore - maybe avoiding. Ocassionally I have a dream that keeps haunting me and so I'd write it down. I also have lucid dreams. I explained it once to a friend and she thought that I was stressed.
Thanks for sharing. What are some good books to read on the topic?
SEM Pro, thanks for the info. I have taken note of the website and books. I'll be delving deeper into them.
Some time ago I wrote down the dreams that I remembered and I would try to analyze their meaning. On looking back on them they all seem to have a similiar theme, so I know that I need to work it out.
I'll look up the Eckist as I've never heard of it. Thanks and I'll let you know how it goes...
I look forward to a meeting in Valhalla! No practice necessary, only the intention. Once the ice is broken, the river begins to flow.
SEM Pro, so few have the courage to accept their gifts. Glad you've taken the first step. Do write about soul travel and previous lives....there are many here who want to learn more. :)
We can have several soul mates? That's wild.
The instant connection, yes, I have felt that.
Let me understand soulmate is a friend not necessarily a lover right?
About the dreams I had similar but for an event to happen the same day and I never knew to whom because I was in their shoes whoever they were. My explanation is strange.
Wow I am kind amazed that your dream are so specific!
Once again I can only marvel at how far you have come. Here you leave me in the dust, just wondering what went past. I have sublimated my dreams for so long that they are atrophied before they start! I thank you for opening my eyes yet again. I see now that there is much for me to do to set my "house" in order. As you know, I have never been one to fear others laughing at me for sharing my beliefs and feelings, but you have taken this to new heights and once again I admit to being humbled and awed.
Your strength is growing every minute of every day and it is a joy for me to be able to share in this growth, in however small a way. I count myself privileged to know you
and can only admire your determination! Please keep up the fine example as you are inspiring many to come forward, who would otherwise remain silent and afraid of their dreams and feelings. Remember me in Valhalla I am Loki.
Salut mon amie vous etes maravilleuse!!
Life is a mix of dream and reality. The truth unveil if we take the courage to cut throught the illusion.
Thanks for sharing the journey of your life. It's fascinating and I have learnt a lot from it.
God bless,
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While I have never had a dream come true, I have often 'known' things that were going to happen. Sometimes the knowing is very specific, sometimes it is vague.
I know what you mean by meeting those that you instantly connect with. I have met a few of those people in my life, though it is usually a single dream or experience we have in common that needs to be shared, then they are gone.
SEM, I'm not sure I understand you response. When I spoke of 'knowing,' I was referring to a sudden thought and feeling, that told me something that would happen. The first time it happened, I knew something really bad would happen to a guy I knew by name only on Friday. That Friday, he swerved to miss a deer and wrecked his vehicle, killing himself. After that time the 'knowing' became more specific, until all the people I 'knew' about passed out of my life.
As to people with whom I have had an instant connection, once the information has been shared, they disappear from my life. One example was a coworker of my husband's. We saw each other frequently for over a year. One day, we finally talked and found that we had both had dreams that were very similar in content. Within a month, this coworker had changed jobs and shortly there after, moved from the area.
I know what you mean by sounding "loony." There are many things that I don't share with most -- some question if reiki is 'okay.'
What an eye-opening hub. Will take a while to digest all of this and I have to go back and look at some of the many links.
I used to have a recurring dream where I was flying. It felt so wonderful to soar above people, buildings, etc. and I could control it turning this way and that at will. Have not had it in quite some time. I loved that dream!
How very eye and heart opening!!!! My middle son, has a gift~ he is now in his mid twenties... twice in his life, as a tot, once at age 1 while he was in a stroller, once at age 9, women have approached us, looking at him, saying: "he is very special...he has a gift!"... (they said much more than that, but that is the basic message) We did not realize until the after the 2nd incident, he did have a unique gift! We sat with him and talked about the message conveyed by these women and he explained how he could see "colors" around people!!!! (he was seeing auras!!!!) I immediately asked about mine and he explained in full detail what he was seeing and went on to share other family members auras.... throughout the years I tried to nuture his "gift" and encourage him to appreciate this God given gift. Things happen, life happens... he grew up and began "stuffing" his gift and ignoring it... (just as you had).... he is now 26 and in talking to him as an adult, he said he "can no longer" see them. He said he had to concentrate so hard, it became painful, so he stopped. I believe he has that gift, just as you were born with yours... I pray he will "revive" it one day if he can find the peace and level of acceptance you have!! Thank you for the wonderful hub!!! You have given me much food for thought...perhaps I should write to my son and plant a new seed~~~
I appreciate the way you think...beautiful.
I'll share something with you. PPl think i'm crazy every time i tell them but it's no lie. i really dreamt it.
back in the day i always dreamed of planes crashing....tornadoes. things like that....you see, i've never flown and i've never seem a tornado.
well, it stopped. for a couple years anyways. then i had one last one...or so i thought....
a vivid one i remember and then lights firering up at the sky from somewhere i didnt recognize.
ill explain....
...a month or two before the prediction came true i had that dream....a plane crashing into the ground...very distinct scenery: grassy and slightly hilly area with a black charred crater where the plane crashed....nearby were tall trees that the plane barely missed and a barnlike building nearby....that was really it.
so i woke up.
month or two later 9/11 occured. the trade centers had fallen and part of the pentagon was missing....and then the last plane....the one that crashed in penyslvania i think it was....in an area outside of the city that was supposed to crash into the white house i think it was.
And the lights shooting up in the sky that i dreamed of is what i think to be over there in the east where war erupted after 9/11 happened and where the ppl there were just shooting up in the sky bc our fighter planes were believed to be there.
thats the first one...
second is a week ago i dreamed of another plane crash. i havent in a while....so yesterday afternoon i saw a plane crash in front of my very own eyes. it just disentegrated.
the man died on impact.
no one saw it.
but i did. so did my bf who was with me.
i live by an airport so that may be why i dream what i dream. however i didnt always live there and when i did live somewhere else i had these dreams.
i feel like sometimes i can see things. i think i may be just imagining things but i dont see why. ive never flown and i dont think about flying.
ive always wanted to know if we can see things before they happen
oh and one more thing i forgot to mention....we havent had a plane crash in 24 years here.
im 24
thanks :)
i actually had a dream last night. Another different one though...
this one was about my friend katie. it was kinda weird. she had kidney failure and she needed a new one or something.
ive never dreamed something like that. something specific about a friends health.
i dunno what it means. i actually just texted her just now to ask her if she is having any internal problems...
Very good hub..I was actually going to hit back and go to the hub menu but your article pulled me in. Very interesting stuff. I dont know how on earth you could have seen this gift as anything but super special. Seriously. Many of us would kill to have it. Be proud of it for the rest of your life.
Hey Sylvia! I've only just seen your email. I've already read this hub and rated it up :) There's something very compelling about your writing style - so much energy & soul leaping out of my computer screen as I read!
Like you, I've also dreamt of future happenings and I've spent a lot of the last year trying to find the words to explain the mechanism of it - not easy! For me it's like a memory of the future, just like we have a memory of the past. I've been reading a lot about the nature of time, as well as how we can explain ESP through modern physics. It's a work in progress ;P
Thanks for your positive response to my website - lately it has taken a very back burner as I'm spending any free time on here! I need a week off work to edit the whole thing really and give serious thought to where I want to go with it.
I've just published a new hub on dream incubation if you're interested - it's called "Solve life problems the creative way". I'm gonna link my dream related hubs to yours :)
Nice! The Theatre of the Imagination is a deep profound yet "simple" voice inside to guide people,it is up to the individual how to steer the human vessel in life.




























k@ri 2 years ago
This is a very touching account. I have also had real dreams, but not in many years. I do not remember my dreams very often anymore. Maybe this was once a conscious choice?